“If you’re not sure then you’re probably not ready”
“Putting off sex for a while can help you feel more in control"
“Just because you’re saying ‘No’ now doesn’t mean you always will”
“If they’d dump you if you won’t – do you really want them?”
“How do you feel about it?”
“You do have the right to say ‘no’ you know”
“I’m not happy with that – I want something better for you”
“It’s not unusual for someone your age not to be having sex”
“Most people aren’t having sex yet - even though they say they are!”
“Whenever you say ‘no’ to one thing, you’re saying yes to something else”
“Most people don’t have sex till after they’re 16, you know”
“What kind of relationship do you want?”
AND OF COURSE………
“I’M JUST WONDERING WHERE YOU ARE IN ALL OF THIS?
With a background in teaching, youth work and youth service management Jo was Director of the National Centre for HIV and Sexual Health from 1989-2005.